To Have and To Hold
To Have and To Hold
55% 7 reviews
55%
(7 Ratings)
Positive
29%
Mixed
43%
Negative
28%
Members say
Cliched, Funny, Slow, Banal, Dated

About the Show

Richard Bean's new comedy dealing with ageing parents who just don’t want to be dealt with.

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Critic Reviews (13)

London Theatre
November 8th, 2023

“It’s bound to strike a chord with anyone who has watched loved ones start to deteriorate, and it seems well-attuned to a Hampstead Theatre audience that may well understand the prevailing dynamic even if they are less familiar day-to-day with the Hull accent.”
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BroadwayWorld
November 7th, 2023

“The cast do their best with the material and the set is well executed, but when you’re forced to watch often selfish characters hash their issues out, you may get more entertainment out of watching your own family bicker for two hours.”
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The Guardian (UK)
November 7th, 2023

“It’s a play that touches on ideas around ageing and alienation, care and family love, but focuses on making us laugh – and latterly, nudging a tear towards our eye – rather than developing them.”
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West End Best Friend
November 7th, 2023

“This is a show that is not for everyone. Those that it is intended for, we are sure will enjoy it but as a community, there is always more that we can do in our choices to make a production and its aims accessible to everyone, while still keeping the original intent of the piece.”
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The Telegraph (UK)
November 7th, 2023

“Having just lost my mother, I found the elegiac portrait of imminent parental death and bereavement – and the sense of a generational way of life, ordinary yet inimitable, on the brink of erasure – all too poignant.”
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The London Evening Standard
November 7th, 2023

“The plot is vestigial, only there to support a series of running gags, acrimonious banter, shaggy dog stories and standalone jokes that feel even older than Jack. It’s entertaining enough, with moments of pathos, but feels sketchy and unfinished. The ending, which takes place during lockdown, descends into cliché.”
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Time Out London
November 7th, 2023

“...a funny and entertaining piece, a classic setup, a stab at something state-of-the nationy by focusing on the class divide, wealth divide, political divide, geographical divide within one family.”
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All That Dazzles (UK)
November 7th, 2023

“The greatest element To Have and To Hold has going for it is its miraculous cast...[the show] has a lot of potential. However, its problem lies in its deeply flawed execution...Despite [these], the show does have some decent things going for it with some truly great bits of dialogue and a lot of laughs, particularly in the beginning, as well as stunning performances from Alun Armstrong and Marion Bailey. Unfortunately, its flaws outweigh its strengths.”
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